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Four continents, nineteen countries, and one lesson I'm still unpacking.
Lessons from the Ride
Expanding Your World
A story. A lesson. A challenge.
Welcome back to Lessons from the Ride. This time, I'm taking you around the world with us—four continents, nineteen countries, and one lesson I'm still unpacking.
 
The Ride

Every day as I walk down our hallway, I'm reminded that a map can tell you where you've been—but it can't tell you the stories of what mattered most.

The pushpins show the places.

The photographs remind me of the moments.

To celebrate our retirement, Craig and I packed two suitcases, locked the front door, and set off on an 89-day journey around the world.

At the time, we had no idea how much the journey would change us.

People often ask us what our favorite place was.

It's a fair question—but an impossible one.

Every place we visited gave us at least one unforgettable moment. Most gave us many.

Sometimes it was the breathtaking beauty of nature.

Sometimes it was the brilliance of something people had built hundreds—or even thousands—of years before.

Sometimes it was a conversation with someone we'd just met who somehow made us feel at home halfway around the world.

And sometimes it was simply sharing laughter with new friends, despite not speaking the same language.

It turns out, smiles and laughter are a universal language.

When I think back on those 89 days, I don't remember days, I remember moments.

The Lesson

Our big and diverse world is filled with people who are much more similar than different.

Our languages, traditions and cultures may vary, but our desire to love, to belong, and to build meaningful connections is remarkably universal.

I've come to believe that expanding our world isn't really about how many miles we travel. It's about replacing assumptions with curiosity.

Every new perspective makes our own world just a little bigger.

Surprise Yourself

You don't have to travel around the world to expand your world.

This month, choose one way to make your world just a little bigger.

— Strike up a conversation with someone whose story is different from yours.
— Visit somewhere in your own town you've never been.
— Order something you've never tried.
— Read a book written by someone from another culture.
— Ask someone a question you've never thought to ask before.

You might be surprised by what you discover—not just about someone else, but about yourself.

How will you make your world a little bigger this month?

Until Next Time…

Thanks for being here. I'm so glad you're part of this journey.

If today's story reminded you of someone who might need to hear it, I'd love it if you shared it with them.

 
Enjoy the ride, Kathy

P.S. I'd love to hear from you!

Hit reply and tell me—how are you expanding your world this month?

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